The hubby quit smoking two weeks ago. He planned to be done with the cigarettes once the current carton was finished, but he got sick and thought, what the hell? I’ve already gone two days, might as well do it now. I’m really happy for him; he’s done a fantastic job. I must admit, it’s a strange and new dynamic: we apparently spent a lot of our alone time together smoking, which I did not realize until he quit. We’re staying in bed later each morning because we no longer rush to make coffee and have a few smokes before the toddler gets up. Instead, we’ve taken to working out a few days a week. At night, we always stepped outside for one or two after the toddler went to bed. Now, I don’t even go…unless I’m having a drink, that is.
When he stopped smoking, there were 6 packs left in the aforementioned carton. As of yesterday, there were still 2. In two weeks, I have smoked less than 4 packs, and that’s with a friend coming in town last weekend and helping me out. As the hubby predicted, I smoke less now. Bear in mind he smoked around a pack per day, whereas I might have 5-6 total…unless I’m having a drink, that is. With the toddler, I simply don’t have the time or opportunity to smoke the way I used to. She’s always in the car with me, so that scenario is null and void. During the day, I’m working, and if I want one, it just seems wrong to step outside while she’s in the house playing alone so Mommy can have a cigarette.
That said, I have no plans to quit smoking. I just don’t see me ever stopping altogether. I will always enjoy one with coffee, and let’s be honest, booze and cigarettes go together like cheese and french fries. The hubby assures me he will not become one of those asshole former smokers who bag on people who still blissfully enjoy a habit they chose to stop. I believe him.